Sober is Sexy! Not so pretty when you look back at drunk and slutty

I remember being drunk and high, strolling into a club and thinking I was Queen Bee. I was gorgeous, the life of the party, statuesque and intimidating. I was all powerful.
Then I look back at past pictures and speak to friends as I cant actually remember things after my regular blackouts in the evenings. I look at me …I was bedraggled, haggard, unbalanced, drooling and talking absolute nonsense. I wasn’t intimidating, I was just irritating.

Before and after Picture taken from internet if this is yours please excuse or inform us – thanks

If you frequent the club scene than you know that there is nothing more revolting than a drunk person trying to make conversation. Oh wait, I take that back. There is nothing worse than a drunk person hitting on you! The smell of alcohol, the blood shot eyes and the mouldy breath… how attractive. We feel sexy when we are high or drunk because we lose our inhibitions completely. We also lose our sense of balance and sense of logical thinking.

Ask any man or woman and they will tell you that a sober person is a million times more mysterious, mesmerising and sexy than a typical drunk or drug fuelled maniac.

So what does it mean when you say Sober is Sexy?

In today’s world of social media and Photoshop, where everybody’s picture is touched up and every pretty girl is photo-shopped, it can be easy to fail to see what sexy and attractive really is all about. Sexy actually means a lot of diverse things, other than just looks, sober is sexy people have lots of sexy qualities to them.

Making sure that recovery is more than just not focussed on drinking and drugging. You have to express yourself and enjoy life, feel good about yourself and be fulfilled happy and healthy. Recovery is all about living!

This is why being sober is just plain sexy!

5 Reasons why sober is sexy

Side Note: I would love to list Robert Downey Jr as the number one reason sober is sexy but apparently that isn’t appropriate.

You look alive
You look so good! When you put down that bottle of booze and throw away that stash of drugs, your physical health improves phenomenally. Your body weight gets back to normal, your skin clears up and your eyes are alive again. You get your spark back, you get yourself back – you get your sexy back.
Your strength is inspiring
Pain and struggle develop strength. Recovering addicts have been through the ringer and persevered against all odds. Mental strength is powerful, it attracts people as they view your strength as inspiration. In recovery you learn to build a solid foundation from which to build upon. How sexy is a fighter, someone who has overcome all odds? The underdog becoming a success. Yum…
You actually have some money!
Look, I’m not saying that people with money are attractive. What I’m saying is that someone stealing for drugs, pawning other people’s property for drugs and conning friends to buy you booze and drugs is just slightly unflattering. Now you are able to buy yourself food, get your hair done, pamper yourself a bit and take someone you quite like out for lunch. Spoil yourself and spoil others – when did you ever think that would happen?
You are compassionate and able to help others
As previously stated, in recovery you are filled with strength. You have also been through a life altering process, through the 12 steps or religion (whatever helps you stay clean) you have been given valuable life tools. You are able to call yourself out on your own character defects, embrace your good qualities, acknowledge past mistakes and have learned about a little thing called ‘acceptance.’ Having these tools gives you a chance to help other people. You are able to pass on this advice, not necessarily to other recovering addicts but to anyone having a tough time. Sober is sex you can listen now. You can help now.
You Have Your Shit Together
What could conceivably be sexier, than a woman or man who has their life sorted out?
1. You show up on time and you’re accountable
2. You’re sober, self-assured and steady..
3. You admit your faults and every day you are trying to improve yourself.
4. You’re not too proud to ask for help.
5. You help people where you can.

You got sober. You are a fighter. You learned from your past mistakes and have turned it around for yourself.

We are proud of you!! You should be very proud of yourself!!!When you are willing to give up your time to help someone else… well, saying that you are sexy is an understatement. You are more human than most…

So the bottom line is

If you or a loved one are in need of assistance please do not hesitate to call our office for more information on dealing with alcohol abuse and getting yourself into rehab to start a new life, call Houghton House now, because sober is sexy!

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Hilda Gonlag

2024-05-15

My experience at Houghton House was a life changing experience.Thank you to all the councillors and staff for all their support and guidance to make my recovery such a success. I will defenitely carry on my recovery at Houghton House I recommend this faciity as the best in Gauteng. Now I'm living in the Sober House and am able to live a Sober independent life in a beautiful home with an amazing garden living life to the full.

chad trollip

I went into Houghton house broken and with no other resort. I thought nothing or no one could help and I basically accepted I would die as an addict. After getting through detox and attending groups I found hope again and realised there were so many people that cared about me. The nursing staff (especially Nelson!) were fantastic. The councillors and physiologists helped me tremendously with dealing with the wreckage of my past. Houghton House really gave me a second chance at life and I’ll be forever grateful!

carmiel mahood

Such an awesome place ! Nice people and great management !

Jessica Naicker

2024-05-14

I wanted to take a moment to express our deepest gratitude for the transformative experience my friend had during her stay at Houghton House Addiction & Mental Treatment Centre. From the moment she walked through the doors, she was met with warmth, compassion, and a genuine dedication to helping her on her journey to recovery. First and foremost, we must commend the staff for their unwavering support and expertise. Every member of the team, from the counselors to the medical staff, demonstrated a profound commitment to her well-being. Their kindness, patience, and encouragement provided her with the strength and courage she needed to confront her challenges head-on. The program itself was exceptionally well-designed, offering a comprehensive approach to recovery that addressed not only the physical aspects of addiction but also the underlying emotional and psychological factors. The variety of therapeutic modalities, from individual counseling to group therapy sessions, allowed her to explore different avenues of healing and gain valuable insights into herself. Furthermore, the facilities at Houghton House Addiction & Mental Health Treatment Centres were impeccable. The serene environment, coupled with comfortable accommodations, created a safe and nurturing space where she could focus solely on her recovery without distractions. The attention to detail in every aspect of the center's design truly contributed to the overall sense of peace and tranquility. As she reflects on her time at Houghton House Addiction & Mental Health Treatment Centre, she is filled with a profound sense of gratitude and hope for the future. Thanks to the guidance and support she received here, she now feels equipped with the tools and resources necessary to maintain sobriety and lead a fulfilling life. Once again, thank you from the bottom of our heart for everything you have done for her. Houghton House Addiction & Mental Health Treatment Centre will always hold a special place in our heart, and we will be forever grateful for the positive impact it has had on my friend's life.

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Warrion Mcenzie

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